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How to calm a panic attack

If it's happening right now, don't read far. Go straight to the steps below. You're going to be okay, and this will pass.

Right now, try this

A panic attack feels frightening, but it is not dangerous and it will pass. Let's slow it down together.

1

Breathe out for longer than you breathe in

Breathe in gently through your nose for a count of four. Breathe out slowly through your mouth for a count of six or seven. The long out-breath is what tells your body the danger has passed. Repeat for a minute.

2

Name five things you can see

Look around and quietly name five things you can see, four you can hear, three you can touch. This brings your mind out of the panic and back into the room.

3

Plant your feet and feel the ground

Press your feet flat into the floor. Feel the chair or ground holding you up. You are supported. You don't have to hold yourself together. Let it carry you for a moment.

4

Tell yourself the truth

Say, gently: this is a panic attack, it will peak and then it will fade, and it cannot hurt me. You have survived every one before this. You'll survive this one too.

If you're past the worst of it now, take a breath. That took something, and you got through it. Here's a little more, for when you're ready to read it.

What's actually happening to your body

A panic attack is your body's alarm system firing when there's no real danger. The same ancient system that would help you run from a threat floods you with adrenaline: your heart races, your breathing speeds up, you feel dizzy or detached or like something is very wrong. It's deeply unpleasant, but every one of those sensations is harmless. Your body is trying to protect you. It's just got the timing wrong.

Understanding this matters, because a lot of the terror of a panic attack comes from the fear that something is seriously wrong, that you might faint, lose control, or that it will never stop. It will stop. Panic attacks peak within minutes and then fade, because your body simply cannot sustain that state for long. Knowing that takes some of its power away.

The fear of the panic is often worse than the panic itself. Take away the fear, and you take away most of its grip.

What helps in the longer run

In the moment, the steps above are your toolkit. Between attacks, a few things genuinely lower how often they come and how strongly they hit:

That last one is the hardest and the most important. Avoidance feels like relief, but it quietly makes anxiety stronger. Facing things gently, with support, is how the fear loosens over time.

You don't have to manage this alone

If panic attacks are becoming a regular thing, or if the fear of the next one is starting to shape your days, that's a sign worth listening to. Not because anything is wrong with you, but because this is exactly the kind of thing that gets better with the right support, and far quicker than people expect.

If the panic keeps coming back

Talking to someone who understands anxiety can make a real difference. At Glen & Oak, we'll match you with a qualified therapist who can help you understand what's driving the panic and loosen its grip, online and at your own pace. No waiting list, no pressure.

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This guide offers general support and isn't a substitute for medical advice. If you're struggling to stay safe or need urgent help, please find urgent support here.